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what is a Frienchecher? If you ask me then I would probably not answer you directly because I just invented the word from thin air (so to speak)…

Freinchecker def. noun. A close friend who plans an event, night out, meeting, date, a dinner/lunch or brunch, watch a movie etc… and ends up canceling out on you on the last minute—and (it doesn’t end there) and… at the last last last minute, telling you that he/she is available again to meet.

Etymology is from the english word "friend+ rain + check), friend is someone who is close to you and has a bond or special meaning to you, someone who is more than an acquaintance… a rain check is when someone cancels out… put ‘em together we have a friend who constantly rain checks on you…

Well it’s ok really if there are some valid reasons like family and a previous responsibility… that is really forgivable and i am totally amenable to any changes if it involves that… but lousey excuses that can be spotted a mile away with inverted binoculars is really soemthing that makes my blood boil…(hahahaha so jay-ar tama ka pala noh? pissed pa rin ba? hinde naman…)

i guess all i am really pointing out is for a little sensitivity… I personally am not mad (not now anyways…mabilis naman ako mag forgive) when friends do this, but I am irritated because you set things aside (like the way i turned down an invitation this sunday afternoon to have time off with my friends from high school) in order to make a commitment. Then on the last minute this person cancels out on you…

so anyways, im over it… used to it in fact…
used to it but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt anymore…

over and out
-shuteye-